HomeschoolrsRUs
07-18-2005, 11:45 PM
I am by no means a legal eagle, and so I pose a question hoping that I can find out some information on my own because I don't want to engage in tale-bearing.
I don't know how to say this other than to just lay it out as I know it. Apparently a while back in the church we are attending a member was put out of the fellowship because, according to our Pastor, he had taken steps down a path (but not ACTUALLY committed any specific crime against a person), and the situation was so serious it went to a court of law. The Pastor did not give any specific information, but an inference was made that left me with the impression that this person might have been accessing (and or beginning to traffic in) child pornography, or at the very least something along that line (but no actual case of child abuse or molestation ever occurred), BUT I DO NOT KNOW THIS FOR A FACT. In any case, this man is the father of one of the (adult) young ladies in our church. Apparently the Pastor and two other church members (men) have been counseling with this man since it happened and he served his sentence (whatever it was), and it has been several years since all this happened and his parole is over. He wants to come back into the fellowship of the church, and the Pastor has proposed that this happen UNDER THE CONDITION that he be in a Men's Watchcare Program -- several men have agreed to be his "body guard" for lack of better term, and monitor his actions and behavior at the church, keep tabs on him outside of the church, etc.
Now to my question . . . since the Pastor wasn't specific about any of the details of this, and this is such a serious situation, is there any way to find out what this man did and was convicted of? Is there a way to access public records or something to find out just how serious this was? I do not want to be a tale-bearer; I do not want to have the wrong impression of this situation nor perpetuate one; I want to know because I have children, and I want to know if this is something that our family should oppose. The man is coming to speak to the church this Sunday, to admit (in unspecific terms because the church is filled with children that remain in the service) his wrongdoing, and ask for return to fellowship, and it is my understanding that the Pastor is going to call for a congregational vote on this at the close of service. So, I kind of need to find this out as soon as I can.
Any information or help in the direction would be greatly appreciated.
I don't know how to say this other than to just lay it out as I know it. Apparently a while back in the church we are attending a member was put out of the fellowship because, according to our Pastor, he had taken steps down a path (but not ACTUALLY committed any specific crime against a person), and the situation was so serious it went to a court of law. The Pastor did not give any specific information, but an inference was made that left me with the impression that this person might have been accessing (and or beginning to traffic in) child pornography, or at the very least something along that line (but no actual case of child abuse or molestation ever occurred), BUT I DO NOT KNOW THIS FOR A FACT. In any case, this man is the father of one of the (adult) young ladies in our church. Apparently the Pastor and two other church members (men) have been counseling with this man since it happened and he served his sentence (whatever it was), and it has been several years since all this happened and his parole is over. He wants to come back into the fellowship of the church, and the Pastor has proposed that this happen UNDER THE CONDITION that he be in a Men's Watchcare Program -- several men have agreed to be his "body guard" for lack of better term, and monitor his actions and behavior at the church, keep tabs on him outside of the church, etc.
Now to my question . . . since the Pastor wasn't specific about any of the details of this, and this is such a serious situation, is there any way to find out what this man did and was convicted of? Is there a way to access public records or something to find out just how serious this was? I do not want to be a tale-bearer; I do not want to have the wrong impression of this situation nor perpetuate one; I want to know because I have children, and I want to know if this is something that our family should oppose. The man is coming to speak to the church this Sunday, to admit (in unspecific terms because the church is filled with children that remain in the service) his wrongdoing, and ask for return to fellowship, and it is my understanding that the Pastor is going to call for a congregational vote on this at the close of service. So, I kind of need to find this out as soon as I can.
Any information or help in the direction would be greatly appreciated.