Sperm Donor Ordered To Pay Child Support For 18-Year-Old

[ez4u2c]

“A New York doctor who donated his sperm to help a gay colleague conceive has been ordered to pay child support for the boy, now an 18-year-old living in Oregon, the New York Post reported Sunday.” FOX News

Be careful where you make a deposit! :shame:

Full Article:
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,314564,00.html

On the lighter side:
http://klintons.com

[Lubbock]

Best I can tell, it's just exactly what the fool deserves for "donating" to lesbians in their quest to become parents.

As far as I'm concerned, people who participate in this sort of thing --sperm banks, etc. be they lesbos/or hetros, are really messing with nature. REALLY asking for trouble.

It's not beyond the realm of possibility that a hundred years from now, every couple who apply for a marriage license will also have to undergo DNA testing in order to determine just how closely they MIGHT be related.

Think about it.

I wonder just how many babies have been born as a result of a "donation"?

[Rhino]

$PERM WAIL BY DONOR
MUST PAY SUPPORT 18 YRS. LATER
By LUCY CARNE

December 2, 2007 -- A sperm donor who sent gifts signed "Dad" to his biological son has been slapped with a child-support order, 18 years after helping his friend get pregnant.

The Nassau County man donated his sperm to a work colleague, and included his name on the child's birth certificate, saying it would give the boy an identity, courts documents revealed.

He then blurred the lines between donor and full-time father by sending money, presents and cards signed "Dad" and "Daddy," and having phone chats with the now college-bound teen.

But the man's goodwill backfired: A court ruling says he is now liable for financial support of the 18-year-old, who lives with his mother in Oregon....http://www.nypost.com/seven/12022007/news/regionalnews/perm_wail_by_donor_901096.htm

It doesn't say it until far down in the story, but he donated sperm to a lesbian couple.

[DesertFox]

His tough luck. Bad judgment to trust anybody on something that private and significant.

[Wolfcounsel]

And of course the "little boy" cannot tell the judge that he refuses child support payments even though he is of age to say so. Right? After all, the money is for the baby, eh? This is the same situation where a woman raises her children alone and without financial support other than a job, because the father is dead, no?

So much for the responsibility being the same for a heterosexual couple and a carpet-munching couple. The lesbian "father" who left is, of course, not the natural father, so she is free of fatherhood responsibility because of her "Get out of Hell" card.:evilgrin:

[Trance]

I've always wondered if people who go to a 'sperm bank' can file child-support charges on the doner. I guess we have the answer....

[Rhino]

Her 'partner' didn't leave. They're still together. The 'partner' is also a doctor.

[Wolfcounsel]

"Her 'partner' didn't leave. They're still together. The 'partner' is also a doctor." --Rhino

So what is she doing now with the money she earns as a doctor? Not providing support as the "father" of the baby? Or are these carpet-munching relationships the type that has to have a third person, a male, a dumbass, ignorant as dogpoop male, involved? How convenient. And like I asked. Doesn't the "boy" have any say in this matter, or is it just extra money for him, typical of a welfare bum?
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[Kathy30]

I doubt if he has to pay retroactive child support since he was never under an order to pay anything.

The order is correct insofar as the donor did more than just fill up a turkey baster. He gave gifts, referred to himself as Daddy and kept an active and fatherly interest in the boy's life.

[DesertFox]

Dude's getting screwed over, but I don't feel sorry for him. You mess around with dysfunctional people and dysfunctional things happen.

[Wolfcounsel]

"The order is correct insofar as the donor did more than just fill up a turkey baster. He gave gifts, referred to himself as Daddy and kept an active and fatherly interest in the boy's life." --Kathy30

Well, yes. Any baboon in black robes can judge it correct also. Not calling you a baboon, Kathy.:evilgrin:

The question remains: Do these homosexual unions or "marriages" depend on a third suckerable stooge to make a family? I foresee a decline in the number of donors, never mind the rise in the stupidity of referring to themselves as "daddy' or their giving of gifts to the offspring.<!-- / message -->

[Kathy30]

Lubbock, you have no idea how true your statement is, and for numerous different reasons.

In the average middle sized city, how many women have children by different fathers? How many men have fathered children with how many women? I personally know of women that have had six children with six different men. Men who have a dozen children by different women. It is entirely within the realm of possiblity that by the sheer force of promiscuity alone a DNA test would be necessary.

[TeenageRepublican]

I support sperm donating if the case is a straight married couple can't have a child but want one. Anything else is wrong.

[Sarah]

This is retarded. The man gave sperm, he didn't sleep with a woman getting her pregnant and then leave her.
Those who filed the suit along with the moronic judge who favored this BS should all be put in jail.

[Wolfcounsel]

"I support sperm donating if the case is a straight married couple can't have a child but want one." --TeenageRepublican

You don't support being ordered to pay child support for the "gift", do you?

[mkafrica]

This is retarded. The man gave sperm, he didn't sleep with a woman getting her pregnant and then leave her.
Those who filed the suit along with the moronic judge who favored this BS should all be put in jail.

What about the fact that the father sent the kid gifts signed "Dad"? Doesn't that mean that he was kind of asking for it to begin with?

[Madbomber]

Dude's getting screwed over, but I don't feel sorry for him. You mess around with dysfunctional people and dysfunctional things happen.


This pretty much sums it all up doesnt it.

[Wolfcounsel]

"What about the fact that the father sent the kid gifts signed "Dad"? Doesn't that mean that he was kind of asking for it to begin with?" --mkafrica

Yes. It means the idiot wanted some semblance of being a father to a child "adopted" by a lesbian "father" and its lesbian "wife". Keep your sperm private, men. Don't throw pearls before masturbatory perverts.<!-- / message --><!-- sig -->

[Riverboat]

You know what they say. The road to hell is oiled with human lubricants.

[Longhorn_Platinum]

:um: I'm glad I'm not going there.

[TeenageRepublican]

You don't support being ordered to pay child support for the "gift", do you?

No. Like you said, it was a gift. If the man gave his bodily fluids willingly, then it's a gift.

[DesertFox]

I'd have this to say --

[Rhino]

And we'd sure listen to you if you looked like that! :lol:

Threads merged. I never would have thought to look in this forum for this. I posted it in News.

[DesertFox]

I'd donate sperm to her, but I'd wanna be the, er, "doctor."

[Rhino]

I couldn't donate. I like being married.